God can speak through the voiceless. After I started working with deaf people, my view on communication has drastically changed. My deaf coworker became the most tremendous encouragement at work.
On the first day we worked together, we communicated through an interpreter. We learned that we have many things in common, including our faith. She encouraged us much at the workplace.
She became an integral part of our workplace. During our work, we encouraged one another throughout the day. We prayed and shared Bible verses. I told her about the hymns on my playlist. My coworker told me she doesn’t have a favorite hymn but loves reading the Bible. She shared a few favorite Bible verses with me. I shared the hymn's lyrics with her. Moreover, she encouraged me during some of the most challenging times in my life. This woman is one of the most encouraging people I have ever met.
I started learning sign language the first day we worked together.
A few weeks later, I asked her, “Do you ever feel angry about not being able to hear the sounds?”
She smiled and replied: “I still do sometimes. However, technology has made it easier for people like me. I use typing on my phone to communicate with people whenever I go out. Many times, I don’t need an interpreter. Even at work, communicating via technology is enough. Every day, I remind myself that this life is temporary. ”
She paused momentarily before continuing, “Being deaf doesn’t stop me from hearing the voice of God. Someday, I will have a new body and hear the sounds around me.”
My deaf coworker taught me many important things. She taught me how to listen genuinely.
Deaf people communicate precisely, rapidly, and respectfully. They stay focused on a conversation. Deaf people don’t interrupt. They ask if they don’t understand something. They know how to be present. These people easily express their emotions. They are straightforward and down to the point. Because of their communication, Deaf people can avoid much of misunderstandings. Moreover, Deaf people are great listeners. They don’t waste their words. If we followed their principles, our communication would have much less misunderstanding. They are open to learning new ideas.
James gives excellent communication advice.
These words apply to all areas of our lives:
“My dear brothers and sisters, take note of this: Everyone should be quick to listen, slow to speak, and slow to become angry.”
James 1:19 NIV
My coworker has beautiful laughter. She reminded me that our life here is short compared to eternity. Someday, she will be fully healed. This lady attends a Bible Study for deaf people. However, she doesn’t attend church because it’s hard for deaf people to find a church, even in a large city.
During our lunch, I told her, “You have been such an amazing blessing to all of us. If more people knew at least basic sign language, they wouldn’t miss out on getting to know Deaf people. Moreover, Deaf people would become less isolated.”
My coworker signed: “I agree.”
She paused and started typing on her phone: “There are a few Christians among the Deaf. There is not enough outreach!”
Because of her, I learned about one of the least-reached groups – deaf people.
These people are too often isolated, abandoned, and neglected. They live all over the world. Between 200 and 300 million of the world’s population comprises Deaf people. Approximately 2% of them are Christians. Therefore, they are among the largest unreached people groups in the world. We have a mission field near us.
Hi Irina, I received your post today, Feb. 1st, from (in)courage, then, went to your website and read your post from September re the deaf community and their lack of support.
ReplyDeleteIt's always nice to read a fellow Canadian's blog posts. Your writing is very articulate, having a quality that seems to communicate throughout the piece.
Just wanted to say that I'm praying the specialists can find a treatment to give you some relief from your medical condition. As well, I attend a missionary focused church and might share your article about the lack of services for deaf people, not only here in Canada, but around the world. The missions committee is looking for more ways to reach out locally, provincialy, and eventually, internationaly. I would like to share your article re your deaf coworker with the chairperson of the committee, if that's alright with you. Many years ago I took sign language as part of my college course for a DSW but, I baely needed to use this training, so I lost most of my knowledge. I went back to night school, about 10 years into my job to relearn sign language but once again, the program of trying to apply it every day for a particular client didn't come to fruition.
Looking forward to hearing back from you, as well as, reading more of your work.
Shalom, Sandy
Hi Sandy, thank you so much for your prayers. Of course you can share the article. Thank you so much for your encouragement. I was seriously considering stopping blogging before the guest post was published.
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